ابو مصطفى" رجلٌ و الرجالُ قليلُِ "

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  1. فلنكن واقعيين جدا .. لو وجدت احدى زوجات ابو مصطفى فرصة أفضل لما قصرت .. واتساءل يا اخوان هل الرذيلة أفضل من الزواج الحلال ؟؟ومل العنوسة في بيت اهلها افضل من بيت واطفال تحتضنهم ؟يا اخوان الكثير لا يدرك حجم مشكلة العنوسة التي تحاصر بناتنا الملتزمات داخل بيوتهن فارحموهن ولا تتحدثوا بإسمهن ؟؟؟وهل يلاحظ احدكم شغف العوانس لدى رؤية اطفال الاخرين ؟؟

  2. فلنكن واقعيين جدا .. لو وجدت احدى زوجات ابو مصطفى فرصة أفضل لما قصرت .. واتساءل يا اخوان هل الرذيلة أفضل من الزواج الحلال ؟؟ومل العنوسة في بيت اهلها افضل من بيت واطفال تحتضنهم ؟يا اخوان الكثير لا يدرك حجم مشكلة العنوسة التي تحاصر بناتنا الملتزمات داخل بيوتهن فارحموهن ولا تتحدثوا بإسمهن ؟؟؟وهل يلاحظ احدكم شغف العوانس لدى رؤية اطفال الاخرين ؟؟

  3. Majali,

    Matalqa is very talented, I mean he’s going to the AFI!

    Where is Elon again? Never heard of it to be honest, but maybe I am ignorant in your field.

    And how do you get a King Hussein Scholarship? Very curious if its open to fair competition. I mean, some Jordanians make it to MIT, but only because MIT is kind, not their King.

  4. بسبوس
    لهذا السبب قررت عدم وضع او تعليق يزيد الطين بلة.
    عندما قرأت المقال مرة آخرى لاحظت بأنه يطرح الكثير من المشاكل اللتي يجب علينا العمل للحد منها فهل حل.
    العنوسة مثلاً. برجل يتجوز تسعة ، و رجل آخر في المئة من عمره يبحث عن عروس؟.

    المشكله في عزوف الشباب عن الزواج و غلاء المهور و التحول اللذي يحصل لدى هذا الجيل من جراء ما يشاهدونه حولهم.

    اتمنى ان نتوسع في الحديث عن هذا

  5. laith
    صحيح كلامك لكن هذه نادرة (تسعة زوجات) والا لما وردت بالاخبار ؟لكن لو جرب اي شخص طرح الموضوع امام الاباء والامهات لوجد انهم جربوا وفهموا فلسفة الحياة الواقعية اما عديمي الخبرة المتباكين على حقوق المرأة ادعوهم للتفكير بعقلية فتاة فاتها قطار الزواج والله يا اخوان تتمنى اظفر طفل ..ثم هل الرجال وحوش بحيث اذا تزوج اكثر من زوجة راح يشويهن ويعذبهن بس المسألة انه في رجال قادرين يسيروا امور اكثر من عائلة واحدة وفي رجال يا دوب زوجة ..وانا عفوا لا اتكلم فيما يتعلق بالجنس بل القدرة النفسية والمادية.. اخيرا هذا موضوع شائك وطويل لكن انا اؤيد الزواج بأكثر من واحدة وادعو اي انسان يخالفني الرأي انه ما يتزوج ويفكر بكلامي بعد عشرين سنه راح يجد انه اهبل كتير

  6. To Anonymous,
    I don’t know what your questions have to do with this topic, and why you felt the need to ask these underhandedly pointed questions like that. Elon is a well known, excellent university in the US. Perhaps you are ignorant in US universities in general. As for the King Hussein scholarship, the award is in honor of King Hussein, but is administered by Elon, not anyone in Jordan. So yes, it is open every 4 years to any Jordanian who applies.
    I think you will struggle to find anyone who will disagree that Jordan could not have found a better person to be the first recipient of this scholarship. Laith has represented us well and I cannot run into someone from Elon University anywhere in the US who does not know Laith and think of him fondly.

  7. Basbos,
    I know if a man who has a wife asked for my sister’s hand bawarjeel baab, oo momken il kondara bartho.
    Invert the lens and see how you would take it. If that is habal, then I am perfectly happy with being a mottakhallef.

    -Hamako

  8. akhthar,

    Who are you to judge? I mean, in whose authority do you speak? Are you, for example, a professor at Elon? You cant just throw in nice words for someone you dont have the ability to judge objectively.

    Majali himself didn’t answer my post, why do you feel the urge to answer it? Are you his spokesman?

    Regarding “Elon is a well known, excellent university in the US. Perhaps you are ignorant in US universities in general”

    Yeah, I am perfectly ignorant, I only studied at Stanford University. Do you know where that is?

    Lastly, Majali is an ABS graduate, I would hardly believe he is in need of a scholarship for university. His parents can well afford it and he can leave it for someone who is in better need.

  9. wow, people from stanford say dumb stuff like that? So there’s a general rule sipulating that all those that graduated from ABS have $400000 stowed away for a rainy day? Or is there a rule saying that talented people shouldn’t go represent our part of the world in an artisitic fashion if they went to ABS? I’m so confused man, why don’t you go start your own scholarship fund and pick winners based on your own criteria? Surely you could, your tuition is only 40,000 a year at stanford (excluding books…I hear there are alot of books over there).
    I guess you were one of those people who got into stanford on your own merit (I crack myself up sometimes), your intellectual capacity surely shows it. Palo Alto weeps.

    -Hamako

  10. anonymous:

    “So there’s a general rule sipulating that all those that graduated from ABS have $400000 stowed away for a rainy day?”

    From my experience, unless you go to an MIT or a Harvard, scholarships at small and unknown universities are highly unacademic in their criteria. For example, if you are the first Jordanian ever to apply, they are likely to take you in and give you a scholarship.

    Badein habibi, ABS kids, with $400,000 stowed away still beg for money. I have seen myself filthy rich Jordanians run after pity money, worthless gifts and for someone to buy them a sandwich for free in the canteen.

  11. ok this has gotten out of hand, and i wish to put this subject to a rest.

    Anonymous,
    Actually i did reply to your comment before and told you that you can ask me your questions in private and i’d be more than happy to reply. Yet the matter seems to have gone overboard.
    You have made way too many assumptions. You don’t know what my parents’ financial situation is, so there is no need for you to go on generalizing about if i can pay for college or not. Yes i attended ABS, but I also recieved a scholarship there, both for my academic and extraciricular merits. As for the King Hussein Scholarship at Elon University, it was established by the school as an honor to the late king after HM Queen Noor spoke at the school. I applied and recieved the scholarship again based on my academic and extracuricular merits.
    Look, if you think everything was presented to me on a silver platter then think again. I have worked extremly hard to get to where i am in my life today, knowing that people like you will try to undermine what i have done with comments such as yours.

    As for Akthar, he may be the person most capable of judging me, he knows elon, and many people who went there, so I doubt that what he said came from nowhere.

    Again, if you’d like to voice any other comments or ask any other questions please do that in private.

  12. Majali,

    How is Dr. Ehab AlShamaileh (Akthar), who was at Dublin City University and now at JU the most suitable for judging you?

    I think you wrote the “Akthar” comment and put this poor man’s name in the firing line. What Akthar wrote is really not what Akthar thinks of you, rather what you think of yourself. Too much for self-praising you think?

    And I wonder what qualified you for a scholarship at ABS? Clearly you are not exceptionally talented academically or otherwise. Is it a Royalty connection your family has that got you this far? I doubt a Jordanian without a big connection would’ve gotten a scholarship to ABS. So stop the talk about silver and gold plates please.

  13. Man, stop being an idiot. ‘AkHthar’ (not ‘Akthar’) is a name that I, Jamil Zraikat, happen to use as an alias as a joke with Laith, who happens to be my best friend since childhood. I don’t know where you got Dr. Ehab AlShamayleh from. I guess it’s those Stanford research skills that enable you to support your arguments with sweeping assumptions and generally stupid comments.
    Trying to argue with you is pointless. It is obvious you are desperately insecure about yourself, jealous, and incapable of seeing the best in human beings, such that you feel like you have to persistently slag off someone else and their achievements. Additionally, you are gutless and not man enough to use your own name.
    I’ve known Laith most of my life, and not one thing you said in this whole interaction is true.

    So keep using the name ‘anonymous’ because, unlike Laith Majali, that is what you are.

  14. Okay boys and girls, settle down. The fires are fuming, the human drama raging, and all hell has broken loose. I will testify that after knowing him for the past year and a half, Laith is an exceptional human being of high morals, intelligence, and wit. So please, kindly, get off his back. He doesn’t deserve to be attacked for the hard work he’s put in. He is one of the most impressive Jordanians I’ve met, and I don’t say this lightly.

  15. Zreikat,

    “to support your arguments with sweeping assumptions and generally stupid comments”

    lol, what would you call a best friend arguing for the suitability of their friend for two scholarships. Does “objective” ring a bell in your hollow brain?

    Regarding AlShamaileh, you put (www.karak.com) as your website. Scroll up empty head and click your name, you’ll realize how short memoried you are.

    “and not one thing you said in this whole interaction is true.”

    Oh, so Majali never got a scholarship at ABS or Elon? Speaking of supporting arguements with “Sweeping assumptions” and “generally stupid comments”. I can’t but laugh my head off at your stupidity, lol!

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